Comments on: Pity Sex http://redsy.com/2006/11/06/pity-sex/ Red is Good. Fri, 21 Nov 2008 10:30:59 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6.2 By: bubandpie http://redsy.com/2006/11/06/pity-sex/#comment-1643 bubandpie Tue, 14 Nov 2006 14:43:11 +0000 http://redsy.com/2006/11/06/pity-sex/#comment-1643 Hey, where was that book (What to Do When HE Has a Headache) during MY first marriage? I do think that things pick up a bit after the breastfeeding/weaning hormones are out of the way. There's always that ovulation-related hormone surge, where it's a constant tug of war between the urge to have sex and the overwhelming terror at the thought of having another baby... Hey, where was that book (What to Do When HE Has a Headache) during MY first marriage?

I do think that things pick up a bit after the breastfeeding/weaning hormones are out of the way. There’s always that ovulation-related hormone surge, where it’s a constant tug of war between the urge to have sex and the overwhelming terror at the thought of having another baby…

]]> By: Jennifer http://redsy.com/2006/11/06/pity-sex/#comment-1644 Jennifer Wed, 08 Nov 2006 05:03:29 +0000 http://redsy.com/2006/11/06/pity-sex/#comment-1644 Well, both of my little ones didn't spend a significant amount of time on the boob but my libido was still just as low - and still is, unfortunately. I get to feelin' sex-goddess-like when I can look around our home and see no clutter, no dishes, and my man actually doing something crazy-productive without me having had to ask prior. Thus, I've been ungoddess-like for quite some time now...good luck and keep us posted!! Well, both of my little ones didn’t spend a significant amount of time on the boob but my libido was still just as low - and still is, unfortunately. I get to feelin’ sex-goddess-like when I can look around our home and see no clutter, no dishes, and my man actually doing something crazy-productive without me having had to ask prior. Thus, I’ve been ungoddess-like for quite some time now…good luck and keep us posted!!

]]> By: Lotta http://redsy.com/2006/11/06/pity-sex/#comment-1645 Lotta Wed, 08 Nov 2006 01:32:01 +0000 http://redsy.com/2006/11/06/pity-sex/#comment-1645 First - love the new digs! Next - nursing sex. Gack, I don't even want to think about it. The whole carwash effect. The pretending your not skeeved out by looking down and seeing your husband taking a drink from the same place your wee innocent babe was. Tell him to buy you some Similac and a weekend alone and then you'll talk. First - love the new digs!

Next - nursing sex. Gack, I don’t even want to think about it. The whole carwash effect. The pretending your not skeeved out by looking down and seeing your husband taking a drink from the same place your wee innocent babe was.

Tell him to buy you some Similac and a weekend alone and then you’ll talk.

]]> By: emma http://redsy.com/2006/11/06/pity-sex/#comment-1646 emma Tue, 07 Nov 2006 21:17:02 +0000 http://redsy.com/2006/11/06/pity-sex/#comment-1646 True, I did not feel all that horny while I was nursing. Maybe once V gets off it you're libido really will return with a vengeance. True, I did not feel all that horny while I was nursing. Maybe once V gets off it you’re libido really will return with a vengeance.

]]> By: annie rhiannon http://redsy.com/2006/11/06/pity-sex/#comment-1647 annie rhiannon Tue, 07 Nov 2006 19:28:21 +0000 http://redsy.com/2006/11/06/pity-sex/#comment-1647 I've just come through a period of "impotence" as I, probably wrongly, called it. I don't know what happened, I just lost my libido completely. But it came back. I’ve just come through a period of “impotence” as I, probably wrongly, called it. I don’t know what happened, I just lost my libido completely.

But it came back.

]]> By: Heather http://redsy.com/2006/11/06/pity-sex/#comment-1648 Heather Tue, 07 Nov 2006 16:21:18 +0000 http://redsy.com/2006/11/06/pity-sex/#comment-1648 Don't you find it difficult, at times, to switch gears from Mommy to sex kitten? Of course, never having time to be alone or even have a conversation can also add to the problem! I would love to know the answer to this problem. I do agree that getting away does help! Please post when you solve this mystery!!!!!!!! Don’t you find it difficult, at times, to switch gears from Mommy to sex kitten? Of course, never having time to be alone or even have a conversation can also add to the problem! I would love to know the answer to this problem. I do agree that getting away does help! Please post when you solve this mystery!!!!!!!!

]]> By: Neil http://redsy.com/2006/11/06/pity-sex/#comment-1649 Neil Tue, 07 Nov 2006 13:21:10 +0000 http://redsy.com/2006/11/06/pity-sex/#comment-1649 I think PunditMom has it right. This can happen anytime we feel blah and tired, even to men. I think PunditMom has it right. This can happen anytime we feel blah and tired, even to men.

]]> By: knowingdad http://redsy.com/2006/11/06/pity-sex/#comment-1650 knowingdad Tue, 07 Nov 2006 09:52:59 +0000 http://redsy.com/2006/11/06/pity-sex/#comment-1650 Wow. So much to say here. I wish my hottie mama would return (even reasonably warm).... marital celebacy isn't worth a nickel. Wow.

So much to say here. I wish my hottie mama would return (even reasonably warm)…. marital celebacy isn’t worth a nickel.

]]> By: knowingdad http://redsy.com/2006/11/06/pity-sex/#comment-1651 knowingdad Tue, 07 Nov 2006 09:48:52 +0000 http://redsy.com/2006/11/06/pity-sex/#comment-1651 Wow. So much to say here. I wish my hottie mama would return (even reasonably warm).... marital celebacy isn't worth a nickel. Wow.

So much to say here. I wish my hottie mama would return (even reasonably warm)…. marital celebacy isn’t worth a nickel.

]]> By: creative-type dad http://redsy.com/2006/11/06/pity-sex/#comment-1652 creative-type dad Tue, 07 Nov 2006 04:53:53 +0000 http://redsy.com/2006/11/06/pity-sex/#comment-1652 Speaking from experience - once the feedin' stopped, things got much better. But I can't say that out-loud. Speaking from experience - once the feedin’ stopped, things got much better. But I can’t say that out-loud.

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