Comments on: Legacy http://redsy.com/2007/11/21/my-estate/ Red is Good. Wed, 07 Jan 2009 03:14:49 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6.2 By: vicki http://redsy.com/2007/11/21/my-estate/#comment-2610 vicki Tue, 25 Dec 2007 05:42:06 +0000 http://redsy.com/2007/11/21/my-estate/#comment-2610 "I love my daughters more than myself. More than my husband. More than life. But it is also true that I am completely blinded by the instinct to protect and could be overreacting and using this as an exit strategy for a marriage about which I’ve had ambivalent and negative feelings for a long long time." ----- Wow. Awesome. That's all I can say. I am recently separated, have a 6-year-old daughter and we're in Bham too. Good luck, and take care! “I love my daughters more than myself. More than my husband. More than life.

But it is also true that I am completely blinded by the instinct to protect and could be overreacting and using this as an exit strategy for a marriage about which I’ve had ambivalent and negative feelings for a long long time.”

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Wow. Awesome. That’s all I can say.

I am recently separated, have a 6-year-old daughter and we’re in Bham too.

Good luck, and take care!

]]> By: Moobs http://redsy.com/2007/11/21/my-estate/#comment-2382 Moobs Wed, 28 Nov 2007 12:08:29 +0000 http://redsy.com/2007/11/21/my-estate/#comment-2382 It's bound to be a worrying time but anyone with a heart as big as yours and your ability to look unflinchingly at what so many of us hide our eyes from, is a blessing as a mother. It’s bound to be a worrying time but anyone with a heart as big as yours and your ability to look unflinchingly at what so many of us hide our eyes from, is a blessing as a mother.

]]> By: MammaLoves http://redsy.com/2007/11/21/my-estate/#comment-2373 MammaLoves Tue, 27 Nov 2007 04:36:59 +0000 http://redsy.com/2007/11/21/my-estate/#comment-2373 I completely understand that drive to provide your children with a strong center upon which they can grow to be strong, happy adults. What happened that prevented us from ever getting there? I've been missing you. I'm here if you need to talk. I completely understand that drive to provide your children with a strong center upon which they can grow to be strong, happy adults. What happened that prevented us from ever getting there?

I’ve been missing you. I’m here if you need to talk.

]]> By: Witness http://redsy.com/2007/11/21/my-estate/#comment-2370 Witness Tue, 27 Nov 2007 02:12:19 +0000 http://redsy.com/2007/11/21/my-estate/#comment-2370 [...] struggles, I’ve never held with the concept that marriage issues should remain 100% private (obviously). As someone who aspires to some day know how to be happily in a long-term relationship, I learn a [...] [...] struggles, I’ve never held with the concept that marriage issues should remain 100% private (obviously). As someone who aspires to some day know how to be happily in a long-term relationship, I learn a [...]

]]> By: coffee queen http://redsy.com/2007/11/21/my-estate/#comment-2368 coffee queen Mon, 26 Nov 2007 19:56:26 +0000 http://redsy.com/2007/11/21/my-estate/#comment-2368 You continue to touch me with your honesty. You are in my thoughts and I wish you peace. You continue to touch me with your honesty. You are in my thoughts and I wish you peace.

]]> By: Maureen Vellucci http://redsy.com/2007/11/21/my-estate/#comment-2367 Maureen Vellucci Mon, 26 Nov 2007 16:40:34 +0000 http://redsy.com/2007/11/21/my-estate/#comment-2367 now I am totally confused...although it's extreamly easy to confuse me..is this before or after crank mother??? Are you possibly getting divorced or are you already divorced? I was divorced when oldest son was about two years old and while tromatic at the time it was the best thing ever...I wonder if I would have the courage today but it was what I had to do at the time.. kids are so great and can bounce back from anything...Its so much nicer having happy parents rather then ones who have been forced into a situation of cordual co-existance..God Bless you whatever is happening in your life...Your a terrific person and this too shall pass I am so happy to call you a friend....Maun now I am totally confused…although it’s extreamly easy to confuse me..is this before or after crank mother??? Are you possibly getting divorced or are you already divorced? I was divorced
when oldest son was about two years old and while tromatic at the time it was the best thing ever…I wonder if I would have the courage today but it was what I had to do at the time..
kids are so great and can bounce back from anything…Its so much nicer having happy parents rather then ones who have been forced into a situation of cordual co-existance..God Bless you whatever is happening in your life…Your a terrific person and this too shall pass I am so happy to call you a friend….Maun

]]> By: Jenn http://redsy.com/2007/11/21/my-estate/#comment-2366 Jenn Mon, 26 Nov 2007 14:17:21 +0000 http://redsy.com/2007/11/21/my-estate/#comment-2366 Perhaps, with most things in life, it's a mixture of all of it, folly and courage. But mostly courage. The folly stuff just keeps us humble. My thoughts are with you, along with my heart and awe. Perhaps, with most things in life, it’s a mixture of all of it, folly and courage.

But mostly courage. The folly stuff just keeps us humble.

My thoughts are with you, along with my heart and awe.

]]> By: Suburban Oblivion http://redsy.com/2007/11/21/my-estate/#comment-2365 Suburban Oblivion Sun, 25 Nov 2007 19:47:38 +0000 http://redsy.com/2007/11/21/my-estate/#comment-2365 I'm so sorry, my thoughts are with you. I’m so sorry, my thoughts are with you.

]]> By: Neil http://redsy.com/2007/11/21/my-estate/#comment-2321 Neil Fri, 23 Nov 2007 01:20:25 +0000 http://redsy.com/2007/11/21/my-estate/#comment-2321 Sorry. I understand all the emotions you must be having. Sorry. I understand all the emotions you must be having.

]]> By: L.A. Daddy http://redsy.com/2007/11/21/my-estate/#comment-2320 L.A. Daddy Thu, 22 Nov 2007 17:35:31 +0000 http://redsy.com/2007/11/21/my-estate/#comment-2320 Sorry to hear, sweetie. Be strong, hug the girls, and ride out the storm. Sorry to hear, sweetie. Be strong, hug the girls, and ride out the storm.

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